The Tower and Family Reversed

The Tower Reversed in Family

When The Tower is reversed in the context of family, its upright themes may be distorted or blocked. Reversed, it can point to tension, unspoken conflict, or roles that feel rigid or unfair. Family patterns—inherited expectations, favouritism, or old grudges—may be affecting your sense of belonging or your ability to show up fully.

Reversed, The Tower in a family context invites you to look at where communication has broken down or where you're carrying responsibility that isn't yours. It may be a time to set boundaries, to forgive (yourself or others), or to redefine what "family" means to you. Healing family dynamics often starts with one person willing to see the pattern and change their part in it.